Doomsday Mom Lori Vallow Defends Unusual Legal Move: 'Fighting for My Life'

Sarah Johnson
April 7, 2025
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Lori Vallow-Daybell, already serving life for her children's murders, will represent herself in her Arizona murder trial for the death of Charles Vallow.
Lori Vallow-Daybell, popularly dubbed the "Doomsday Mom," is making headlines again as she gears up for her second murder trial in Arizona. In a bold and unconventional move, Vallow has decided to represent herself, a decision she defends as an act of self-preservation, saying, "I’m fighting for my life here."
The charges she faces stem from the 2019 death of her fourth husband, Charles Vallow, in Maricopa County. According to prosecutors, Vallow conspired with her brother, Alex Cox, to orchestrate the killing. Cox shot Charles during what he claimed was an act of self-defense, following a heated confrontation involving Vallow's teenage daughter, Tylee, and a baseball bat. Cox was never charged before passing away from natural causes months later.
Vallow, who has already been sentenced to life imprisonment in Idaho for the 2019 murders of her two children and other crimes, insists her choice to represent herself isn’t a stunt or an act of desperation. In an interview with True Crime Arizona, she said, "I’m not an attorney, I don’t have training to be an attorney. But this experience has been five years running, and I know my case better than anyone." Well, that’s certainly one way to go—straight into the courtroom without a safety net.
Her legal strategy, however, has drawn mixed reactions. Chicago-based attorney Andrew Stoltmann remarked, "This gives [Vallow] a tremendous amount of control over the case. She has little to lose and may be intending to turn this into a three-ring circus." Vallow, for her part, brushed off public speculation, claiming she has no access to outside opinions during her 23-hour daily incarceration.
Her second trial comes nearly two years after a judge sentenced her to life for conspiring with her fifth husband, Chad Daybell, in the murders of her children, J.J. Vallow and Tylee Ryan, along with Daybell's first wife, Tammy. Daybell was also convicted and sentenced to death for the same crimes.
In explaining her decision to go it alone legally, Vallow said, "There are intelligent, strong, beautiful women in here that have been here for eight years because of family tragedies. It’s the same, like my case—a family tragedy, not crime." While her perspective on the events that led to this trial may raise eyebrows, one thing is certain: this courtroom spectacle is bound to test the limits of predictability.
Opening statements are set to begin on Monday, and all eyes are on Vallow as she embarks on what could be her most audacious gamble yet.
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Editor's Comments
Lori Vallow's choice to represent herself is a classic example of 'nothing left to lose,' but her insistence that this is a 'family tragedy, not a crime' feels like a stretch—especially given the list of people who lost their lives under suspicious circumstances. A bold move or a theatrical gamble? Time will tell.
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